Sometimes when things happen we have to learn to let go. Trying to figure out why it all happened can only make things worse. When something bad occurs, as humans we have a tendency of trying to figure out why it happened and then why it happened to us. This doesn’t let the problem dissapear or make things better. Maybe figuring it all out will even make things worse. You shouldn’t focus on the cause when you already regretting the effects. Rather work on the effects so that they create a better cause for the following effects. Remember for every cause there is an effect and for every effect there is a cause. Focus on the effects, they might hurt a little but not as much as knowing the causes would. You never know, there might be a good reason for you losing that job, losing that house,losing that money, getting that divorce, e.t.c. The norm “everything happens for a reason ” is true. And I believe everything done with God is always for the greater good. We might fail to understand it because of pain,anger,depression,e.t.c but with time we always figure it out. Let the effects nurture you into a better person rather than being a cry baby. Stop asking why it all happened to you because I am pretty sure that if you were asked to pick a person to put all your burdens on you wouldn’t pick any. Rather pick on Jesus and The Almighty for he said his burden is easy to carry. Keep the faith and learn to be a better person from all the burden you have. It all can surely teach you to be a better person than you were before. Use all those effects for the betterment of you and never dwell on the causes because they won’t do you any better rather than keep you submerged in your sorrows…….

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