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Love,,romance,,affection,,e.t.c can all be situational staff. Some people have real love but some love you when its beneficial. It is important to study people before falling in love with them. There are two types of people in this world,,those raised on love and the others raised on survival. Those raised on love understand it better. The problem falls mostly on those raised on survival. These people are not adapters,,they dont stay because of love because they dont have such in their hearts. They stay because of living conditions,,if the conditions fail to please what they anticipated they move on to the next place searchin for suitable conditions to survive. These type of people are hard to please because you never know what pleases them. They are the ones with situational/conditional love. They might act like they are in love for a while when things are perfect and you might not suspect anything but when things get sour you will see the true colours. Big sacrifices become less appreciated and small mistakes become huge issues. When they reach this stage its nolonger love they will be offering but tolerance. They will tolerate you long enough till they find someone else or somewhere else to stay with a better condition for them. These type of people are not marriage materials. They are nomadic people. They were raised like that and its hard to change them because thats how they are coded……